Woman - A Phenomenal Star


   A woman lives with a lurking fear of being judged / of failure / of being disliked and disapproved / of over reaching / of drawing negative attention  / of making wrong choices and the mightiest trinity of fear: the fear of being a bad daughter / wife / mother. This lurking fear has a deep impact on her routine, on her thought process and on the way she carries herself in the journey of life. Every man has a fear within; but despite everything that happens under the prestigious banner of feminism only the woman will be judged / misjudged / and no one can dare to tell anything to a man. It will take thousands of years for the mentality of the Indian society to change and be a witness to gender equality without any bias of caste / creed/ profession / any other barrier.
   A woman should learn to come to terms with the lurking fear that troubles her. She needs to stop being tough towards herself. There is no need to be a perfectionist at home / workplace / in everything she does. She must look beyond these norms and teach other women the same. She needs to rest and recover in order to carry on with the flow of life. She must enjoy the moments of the day with gratitude in heart rather than cribbing over trivialities and missing the bigger picture. Adopt a sympathetic, forgiving and understanding approach to the faults of everyone around you in order to be stress free. Do not just squander your life in work (home / workplace). Read more, admire more, spend more time with your family and friends. Make your life a pattern of experience to savor, not endure. Recognize your moments of bliss / joy / gratitude and cherish them. Do not save anything for 'special occasions'. Lose your grip on 'some day' or 'one of these days' and enjoy every moment of life to the fullest. Anything that is worth seeing / hearing; see / hear it now. Don't take your TODAY for granted. Do not wait for tomorrow; life is uncertain.
   Learn more. laugh more, read more, trust more and love yourself more with every passing second. Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift of God. Take a step to build solidarity with other women. Let us turn our relations into a cohesion that yields positive benefits to our family / our society / our city / our country and to the world all over. Let us rise above the trivialities of ego, envy, hatred, competition and distrust among ourselves in order to be of support to one another. Let us remember that the rise of a woman does not intend to see the fall of a man. Let us not prove anything to anyone except our self. Let us accept ourselves as we are - beautiful in our imperfections and yet achieving everything that we desire.

   A VERY HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY TO ALL THE LEADING HEROINES OF MY LIFE WHO SCULPTED AND SHAPED ME INTO THE PERSON THAT I AM TODAY. GRATITUDE FLOWS DEEPLY WITHIN ME WITH EVERY RISING SUN I SEE BECAUSE I KNOW I AM STRONG, FIRM IN DETERMINATION AND DEDICATION TO FULFILL EACH AND EVERY ROLE I AM ASSIGNED BY GOD, THE ALMIGHTY. LOVE YOU ALL.

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