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Life & Death of the Soul

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Life & Death of the Soul The life and death of the soul is an interconnected theme. Death is a very common theme which has been used from ancient times to modern times both in philosophy and literature. It reminds that we are alive and gives meaning to our lives because we know it won't last forever so the death makes it more meaningful. This theme is seen in many of the works of Virginia Woolf such as 'the lighthouse' as this book explores memory, time, and what it's like to be a person. It shows how the character thinks and feels inside, and how they think about time passing and the soul lasting forever. Another book is ‘The Waves’ which is a unique novel that takes us through the lives of six characters from childhood to old age. Instead of regular storytelling, the book shows their thoughts and feelings in a beautiful and musical way. This novel represents how the souls of individuals are connected to each other, how time passes, and how our life experiences inf

Mrs. Dalloway: A Social Critique

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INTRODUCTION ‘Mrs Dalloway’ a novel written by Virginia Woolf is often subject to social critique due to its exploration of early 20 th century British Society. It delves into the lives of its characters, exposing the complexities and limitation of the social norms and convention prevalent during the time. Additionally, the characters in the novel serve as representation of the different societal pressures and struggles faced by people of different background and classes. Overall Mrs Dalloway offers a complex and fine examination of the human condition within its social context. Here are some more specific aspects of social critique present in ‘Mrs Dalloway’.   Patriarchy and gender role: In the novel "Mrs. Dalloway" by Virginia Woolf, patriarchy and gender roles play important roles in molding the characters' lives and experiences. The story is set in post-World War I England, where traditional gender norms and societal expectations heavily influence the charac

True Friendship

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 I am very choosy about each and everything that I have; but I am the most fussiest when it comes to choosing friends. I do not have a huge gang of friends but the friends I have can topple a gang for me. I am selfless, sensitive and supportive towards all my friends no matter what. I am blessed with friends who makes my life fulfilling and precious. You come across people who just pretend to be friends and never value the ones who consider them as their friends. If you are a true friend you will genuinely value and nurture the relation with utmost care and sincerity. You would do anything to see a smile on the face of your friend.  A true friend is one with whom you share a deep and meaningful bond that is based on trust, mutual respect, support and affection. True friendship transcends beyond the boundaries of time, distance and mere acquaintances. The connection that true friends share is genuine, enriching and enduring. True friends must be genuine and authentic with one another wi

Workplace Hypocrisy

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  A discrepancy in what a person says / claims to believe and how a person behaves / treats others is called hypocrisy. Hypocrisy at the work place can be in various forms and it can detrimental to the overall workplace. There are many people around us who are hypocrites and they are masters in poisoning the workplace and throwing toxicity around. People who are not hypocrites suffer the most in organizations where workplace hypocrisy exists. They go through severe stress and suffer unnecessarily for being straightforward and honest compared to hypocrites. A hypocrite behaves in the following ways: @@Double standards: When there are a different set of rules for different people / groups within an organization; one can smell the hypocrisy in the atmosphere. Double standards breed resentment and dissatisfaction within the employees. Being partial towards someone for an error and punishing somebody else for the same error would lead to disharmony within the organization. @@ Lack of transp

The Power of Prayer

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  To pray or not to pray is the choice of every individual but to respect the time of prayer cannot be the choice of an individual. It really shocks me to see majority of girls moving here and there in the University campus during the time of prayer. The prayer that we have is not a long prayer and yet these girls have the impudence to move around during the prayer time. I can understand that each one of us in a great hurry during the morning hours but that does not mean that we can insult the creator of the Universe.  Every university will have students who follow different religions and traditions. But the common factor among all these religions is that every one prays. Whether it is prayer done in isolation / in a crowd one must respect the hour pf prayer. It is one of the stepping stones to respecting a person. If you love and respect someone; you will definitely respect the time when the person prays without any objections / barriers. A university is the hub of knowledge where eac

Life Experiences

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  Our experiences would be a waste if we do not use them. None of us just lands into the world with all the required knowledge. But each one of us goes through the process of 'living' life. These moments are the experiences which you had; yet we never take a lesson from our experiences. Unless and until we don't stop and look back into the experiences of the past we will never learn from those experiences. You are what your experiences have molded you into. If you are bitter / fussy / insecure /, it could be that you have faced such circumstances. But the strength lies in doing the opposite. If you had a toxic boss who ill treated you and showed no human concern towards you; would you also play the same boss or you would be the opposite. While reading this each one of us would respond by affirming that you will not be the same toxic boss. But does this really happen in the world? Only in rare cases; otherwise most of the time the same vicious chain continues. Why? Why? Why?

Transformational Forgiveness

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 Forgiveness is difficult. By forgiving someone who wronged you, you try to inculcate patience and forbearance in your relations with others. The wound that one gets from others are very deep sometimes and we cannot ever think of forgiving that person who gave us those wounds and pain. But contrary to this what majority of us believe, is that forgiving someone is primarily an act which we perform within ourselves. At times, it is safer and healthier for a person to disconnect from the one that hurt you because he / she is not around you to be forgiven directly. But these factors are not the hurdles to forgiveness; the factors are internal. It is you who has to free your self from this anger. We are stuck in anger before we tread on the path to forgiveness. During this phase we plot for revenge, we think of inflicting all the pain and damage which was inflicted upon us. We are in the mode of 'An eye for an eye'. But as observed, revenge is the path of the ignorant. One is in com